A Cry for Help

Good Grief…

Posted on February 8, 2026February 8, 2026 by A Cry For Help

Dizzy spells led to a kidney failure

Kidney failure led to your Demize

Your Demize made me a certified Orphan

I replay the day you left over and over again

It’s unreal that I will never see you again

You prepared me for a lot of things except your Absence

I feel so lost without you

You were my Home my Solitude and that left with you..

I know you would want me to move on

You would want me to stop pitying myself

Even if I cry until my eyes swell up you won’t return

I have to accept that you are gone and learn to live without you

Your spirit still visits me daily to make sure that I regain my motivation

There is no step by step guide for dealing with grief

Some days are better than others and some days you just wish to not exist

Ask yourself this questions , what would your loved ones want you to do?

They would want us to move on and continue living

Their spirits are always cheering us on helping us to ge back on our feet

If you are dealing with Grief , you are not not alone , there is lots of us who can Relate,

leave a comment below if you wish to share your Grief experience and what has helped you . Thank you for reading .

It happened

Posted on November 25, 2023 by A Cry For Help

https://acryforhelp1.wordpress.com/2022/04/04/it-happened/

Dealing with job rejection

Posted on April 10, 2023 by A Cry For Help

” Other opportunities await you ” is a headline I have read 47 times from the same company, and it hurt every single time. Rejection for a job hurts, no matter how many times you go through it, it crushes your spirit and makes you feel like something is wrong with you leaving you Depressed and Hopeless.

How do we pick ourselves up from failure especially when we have experienced it so many times?

Grieve , release your sadness and let it out, if that means getting in your car and screaming or crying , do it. It’s unhealthy to hold on to your sadness, you must allow yourself to feel it and release . Once you have grieved , you can then Accept reality, Accept that you were unsuccessful this time around, and it sucks but you have to move on.

Self belief is vital at this point, you must believe that something else will work out for you, Build up the hope and believe that you will get another opportunity that will work out for you then send out your applications again .

In that process you must remember to have some gratitude for your life , there is a lot you are blessed with and a lot you can be thankful for. Immerse yourself in a hobby and do the things that bring you joy. life is meant to be lived even through our trial and errors we must still live our lives. Socialise with friends and Family, Travel,go on Solo dates or Romantic dates and enjoy your favourite meal.

You are an Amazing person and your failures or rejection does not take that away, not getting a job you wanted does not diminish your professional qualities and experience. It just was not the right job for you. I know people say this a lot but “What is yours is yours and you will get it at the right time for you, do not be Discouraged by this miss”

Keep thriving at your current role, send out those Applications and one day you will get a call that will positively change your life.

It happened

Posted on April 4, 2022 by A Cry For Help

You woke up going about your day

Things were good, things were okay

Then all of a sudden everything went astray

Do you cry, do you pray?

You decide, to get up and try again

Even when it hurts, you get up and keep it pushing

Use what you have and make the best of it

To live is to face what life throws at you.

Go on get up, things will get better

Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow

But a day will come when things are good

Your pain won’t be in vain

You will rejoice again

Acceptance

Posted on October 11, 2021 by A Cry For Help

Peace comes from accepting reality, accepting what you cannot change, this could be people, circumstances, or the weather.

When you resist reality, you put yourself in great despair, this leads to unbreable pain that you can’t cope with.

The only thing you can do is to face the pain, Accept the dissapointment and accept that there is nothing you can do to change the situation however you can change your reaction and the way you cope and recover by accepting reality as it is.

Life is a roller coaster and when you ride this roller-coaster you have to accept the highs and the lows that come with the ride if you resist them you will have a very difficult time

So decide weather you want Peace or Pain

Before I go

Posted on August 7, 2021February 18, 2024 by A Cry For Help

We might not see each other again, I wanted to get some things off my chest

I have always had gratitude for your role In My life, you have been a champion and a Coach for me, encouraging me to never give up and not wallow in self pitty but to get up and keep pushing

For that, I am forever grateful,

With this I’m going to say goodbye, I want you to live your Best life and learn to accept what you can’t change

Remember what a wonderful person you are, you deserve all the joy in the world, you are truly amazing

The Harsh Reality of Dating Married men

Posted on January 19, 2021May 19, 2021 by A Cry For Help

He only calls when he drops something off for his brother who lives in my neighborhood.

When we do meet, he takes me out for dinners at restaurants and afterwards he wants to go to private areas where we can make out and were he expresses how much he wants to sleep with me

“When will you invite me up to your flat” is always the question he asks.

No matter how nice he can act you need to always remember that a married man wants sexual escapism when he is with someone outside of his marriage, he does not have any romantic feelings for you, its all lust.

“He is nice and affectionate when we are out together and treats me like I’m his girlfriend” Reality check “He is Married”

He will treat you like a queen if that gets you to bed with him, the tragedy is that we can’t help who we like, we might end up falling for the small gestures of kindness and mistake them for genuine interest

You have to be Emotionally strong if you gonna see these men, your heart will go through the most. You will find yourself pinning for a man who is home with his wife.

Remember one thing, this man is no price, he lies and manipulates his wife so he can run around with you and lord knows how many other side chicks. He is literally not the guy you should waste your emotions on, if Hypothetically, he left his family to be with you, he would just do the same thing back to you. Do you want that, is it worth it ?Married men tend to leave broken hearts and tears where ever they go.

Just remember, you deserve to be happy and to be with someone who genuinely cares for you. Don’t sell yourself short.

Humbled

Posted on May 1, 2020May 1, 2020 by A Cry For Help

The world has come to a stand still, we have been rocked by a pandemic that seems to be getting worse irregardless of our efforts to social distance.

https://biblehub.com/kjv/proverbs/23-18.htm

It is a trying time for everyone, we are equally affected by this pandemic and no matter how much or how little you have, we are all on the same boat.

So the question is, how do we stay positive and optimistic in the midst of everything happening?

Through having Faith, Believing in what we cannot See or Feel and Trusting that this period will pass and that we will Recover, every period has a finish point, this too will end.

It’s easier to believe in what we can see and more challenging to trust in what is not there. We may not know how or when but this too shall pass, the situation will improve and the world will recover.

Be Grateful for your well being and all of your Blessings, you are not forgotten. You are an Amazing Human being who can handle everything life throws at you and what is happening now is a Humbling and learning experience for all of us.

Be Blessed and Stay Safe